We Love the Women Fandom Hates: Catelyn Stark (Day 2: So What's the Problem with Catelyn Stark?)

We Love the Women Fandom Hates week continues today with day 2, In Which We Address A Pretty Large And Uncomfortable-Looking Elephant In The Room: so why does fandom hate Catelyn so much?

Spoilers as always for the books. Longer than the other days' posts, probably.

( Day 2: So What's the Problem with Catelyn Stark? )